Interior trends may come and go, but monogramming has been a constant for generations. From humble beginnings in ancient Greece and Rome, it was originally used as a mark on coins to recognise a particular ruler of an area. From there, monograms became a tool for royals to proudly show off their power, literally stamping their initials onto property in their kingdom for all to awe. In the Victorian era, monograms came into favour with society ladies as a decorative element, adorning everything from parasols to prams.
Today, the tradition of monogramming is back in mode, minus the antiquated "rules" around design. Be it an elaborately scribed icon or perhaps an austere single-letter imprint, the only limit is your imagination.
When it comes to the actual subject of your monogram, some guidelines do bear repeating.
A personal monogram traditionally consists of three initials (first, middle and last names). If you don't have a middle name, you can use a dual initial monogram or opt to use your initial only.
Historically, a man's initials would remain the same once married, while women would shift their maiden or given last name to the middle name slot and take their husband's last name in place of their own.
Today, couples use both last names, with a hyphen in-between, and many women choose to keep their maiden names.
If the bride takes the grooms last name, joint monograms are pretty straightforward. In most cases, the woman's first name initial comes first, followed by the shared last name initial, and finally the man's first initial. Elizabeth Brown Smith and Charles William Smith would use ESC as their joint monogram, with the center initial being larger than the other two.
If the bride and groom decide to share a hyphenated last name, a hyphen is also used in the monogram. Elizabeth Grace Brown and Charles Smith would be the Brown-Smith family and use E B-S C as their joint monogram. If the bride decides to keep her given name, the couple's monogram would be dual initials only; the two last name initials are separated by a dot, a diamond or some other design element. This distinguishes the monogram from a hyphenated last name monogram. For example, Elizabeth Grace Brown and Charles Smith would use B*S as their joint monogram.
Per tradition, a joint or married monogram should only be used after the couple is official. In other words, don't use a shared monogram on your wedding programs, but feel free to include it on your dinner menus.
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